Rating of the best BDSM toys for 2022

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Mask, toblooper, handcuffs or a collar - only your imagination can limit you!

A quarter of humanity is not only interested in, but also prone to BDSM aesthetic relationships. Games of sexual dominance with submission no longer seem to be something unacceptable in the daily life of a family. Every year, even in fashion collections, there are all kinds of leather corsets, stylized harnesses and extreme belts on models' shoes.

BDSM. What's this?

BDSM is a subculture and directly the sexual practices that are accepted by it. Its basis is the subordination and control of one of the partners by the others.

The sex industry regularly, almost every day, offers new options for all kinds of devices and machines to diversify your sex life. There are standard toys for soft entertainment in bed, for self-gratification, and there are also toys for hard games of partners.

In the arsenal of BDSM sexual culture there are a huge number of such toys. However, many beginners of the "interesting" movement do not always know how to accurately and correctly use them if desired. To purchase such an arsenal for lovers of adult entertainment, just look into the Yandex or Google search engine. There are many sites with goods for BDSM.

Abbreviation for BDSM

All over the world it is customary to designate the practices of sexual pleasures and the whole subculture, which is based on the exchange of almost complete power. This can be called the relationship of a slave and a mistress, or vice versa, in all acceptable ways. There is a brief painful effect, and complete control over the life of a partner.

Why there is interest in the direction

According to foreign sociologists, in Russia, unfortunately, there are no official statistics on this issue - about a fourth of the population of the entire globe prefer games or are already ready to play slavery in bed. And it's not hard to understand them. Our real life: marriage, work, government pressure - this is also a kind of BDSM. Although against the will of the subordinate. And changing the rules here is much more difficult. And in BDSM they can be clearly regulated, get complete relaxation and enjoy the pleasure.

Physical pain, paradoxically as it may sound, causes the release of the hormone of happiness. As a result, over time, a person develops a strict link: "pain is pleasure." Neurologists will tell you that in the hypothalamus of the brain, the areas of aggression and submission are located next to the centers of erection and libido. Here arises the experience of “subspace”, which is incredible for an ordinary person. It's hard to describe in our usual words. Something like a long orgasm and drug intoxication at the same time.

In Europe and the USA, known to us for their tolerance, dominants, sadists, masochists of all stripes even arrange festivals, rallies, trainings in erotic entertainment based on the exchange of power for everyone. They have their own clubs and spankings (extreme massage parlors). Everyone who wants to relieve stress comes here. Some, after a busy day, want to click a leather whip, others want to get pain in soft places. It can be called as a challenge dose of endorphins.

BDSM in Russia

In Russia, topics, as they softly call themselves to replace the not very correct “bad-eesemer”, are a much more closed community, unlike the West.Most amateurs do not advertise their preferences. Many people are in ordinary marriages, hiding their interest in this topic from their spouses.

Officially in Russia there are no thematic clubs for specialized meetings. They, and clubs, and meetings are illegal. The organization of something like this qualifies as the content of places for debauchery and entails criminal liability. But, if you wish, it is not very difficult to find such establishments. BDSM aesthetic enthusiasts in our major cities prefer to have private parties for their own.

What are BDSM toys

These are special devices for those people who use them for sexual satisfaction with elements of dominance. Such products can be bought at any time or online in online stores, where experienced sellers will professionally advise and select exactly what will allow you to get the maximum experience.

Fans of this sexual culture are divided into several areas:

• some love very hard sex, accompanied by bruises, cuts and even bleeding.
• some cultures may limit themselves to a mild version that resembles child's play.

Experienced BDSM players have an arsenal of unlimited devices and sex products. At the initial stage of cruel erotic scenarios, in general, you can use homemade tools or improvised devices. For example, in a game with punishment, a regular leather belt will easily fit.

Usage

Similar toys have differences in use. These are products for one spouse, there are for two. They can be attached to the body or be ordinary hand toys. Much depends on the lovers, their desires and fantasies.Violent sex devices are often justified in use by same-sex partners. There are universal toys for comfort, and there are those that are used by one gender. A prime example is the chastity belt. To punish male lovers, a strap-on is used, which a woman puts on and satisfies or punishes him with an artificial phallus in ... Well, you understand.

The culture of sexual aesthetics, using sadism or masochism, is often used not only within a married couple, but also at various group parties teeming with a huge number of so-called experienced lovers. And here the practice of using a large number of goods of this kind is applied.

Types of sex entertainment

Photos of devices for BDSM can be found on the websites of shops for intimate goods. These products in appearance and at their price will suit any requirements of customers with the most demanding taste.

In the environment of products for sex with elements of hard dominance, several sections can be distinguished, each of which is further subdivided into many types. Let's consider only the main ones. It is possible to describe everything except in an encyclopedia.

• Gags

Let's take a look at the gags first. In order for the subordinate to make fewer loud sounds, balls with leather straps are used. It is both stylish and relatively safe to use.

• Punishment

Next comes the element of BDSM punishment. All sorts of lashes, whips, whips, etc. are often popular. They can be in the form of a flip-flop with a palm, a heart, or a similar flat shape. And there are also multi-tailed leather lashes.

• Handcuffs

BDSM lovers often use fixation elements. Usually these are various versions of handcuffs with a soft body or a hard base made of steel.

• Mask

For absolute submission, face masks are sometimes used. They are used to suppress the will and the full effect of the lover's dominance.

• Grid

The restriction of freedom is carried out by meshes that completely follow the contours of the body.

• latex lingerie

Latex underwear is used to fit the body of the dominant and intimidate the lover.

• Electrostimulators

Electrostimulators are used to search for erogenous zones. If ordered, then he will stimulate himself. The details of how these stimulants work are beyond the scope of this article.

• vibrators

An ordinary vibrator can be used to give yourself an unearthly sensation. But it can also be used as an instrument of torture.

The most popular and interesting erotic accessories for games in the BDSM field

If there is a feeling that the intimate component in your life is starting to go into too monotonous a channel, you definitely need to do something about it. And immediately! According to statistics, love couples who want to experiment are most likely to first try something from the soft extreme. This does not mean that you have to reproduce something in your bedroom from hardcore erotica. Sometimes just one accessory in your bed is enough to radically change the strategy of an acceptable sex life. Below you will learn about the most popular of them, which are in demand among beginners to practice in BDSM culture.

Below we will consider products for extreme entertainment that are available in the Yandex.Market offer.

whips

They can be called in many ways: whips or whips, floggers or stacks. These are all devices for flogging or flagellation. The most common BDSM aesthetic practice is palm punching. But it is more pleasant for the partner and you to do this with a special device.The main spanking accessories should be named:

A whip is a product that consists of tails in the amount of 2 to many pieces attached for convenience on the handle. Tails are made specially from rigid materials. During spanking, it is customary to apply short and biting blows to the partner's body.

Scourge erotic - flogger Notabu multi-tail made of eco-leather

The whip is made of high quality eco-leather. A chic sex device suitable for both men and women in bed role-playing games. In addition, it is perfectly used at themed parties to complement the martial image. She belongs to the type of floggers. Due to the rather soft skin of the tails, the product in the hands of a sex treatment specialist will be an excellent tool for warming up. Using this accessory, beginners in the subject will be able to experience new sensations without fear for their health. Even if there is no desire to plunge into new sensations, this whip will be a wonderful device for role-playing games. Adult products are always delivered to customers in anonymous opaque packaging.

The price is 401 rubles.

• for men and women;
• multi-tail;
• length 43 cm;
• light;
• price-quality ratio.

• material - artificial leather;
• fragility.

Scandal Bull whip (SE-2712-33-1) Lace handle whip

VIP collection of Scandal Bull Whip erotic accessories. The solid handle of the whip is decorated with a pattern of a well-known designer in the respective circles of shiny red threads. The tail section is not very rigid, which produces a sensitive sound effect when it hits the body.

Price - 2594 rubles

• for men and women;
• with a halyard at the end;
• length 104.25 cm;
• durability;
• material: polyester, pvc.

• weighty;
• high price.

Handcuffs

It is a lover's immobilization tool. The impossibility of wanting to move is often exciting, and the dominant partner can do whatever they want. Handcuffs can be chosen according to your desire: metal, leather or fur. The main thing is that the accessory excites partners, and does not repel each other. A girl, for example, can be immobilized with bracelets to the back of the bed, to a chair, to the stairs in the entrance. Fantasy is everything! But remember, the impact should end when discomfort begins for the other partner. It is obligatory to use a stop word in order to remove the handcuffs immediately from the passive spouse.

Pipedream Metal handcuffs (PD4408)

Metal handcuffs are made of high strength hardened steel. Complete with keys. Good old classics and nothing more. Minimalistic design of bracelets only for true connoisseurs.

Price - 759 rubles

• tenaciously sit on the hands;
• durability;
• classic style;
• material: hardened steel.

• possible rubbing of the skin of the hands;
• "hard" comfort.

Women's leather handcuffs. Accessory for erotic games.

Leather handcuffs for women are an indispensable product for unforgettable and exquisite sexual games. The accessory is made of genuine leather with Italian fittings of excellent quality. Women's handcuffs, made by hand, are pleasant to the body, do not rub the skin, and have adjustable wrist coverage. The tie straps clip on to each other and are perfect for belts, belts, chokers and garters. They can be worn just like bracelets when the straps are removed. The stylish look of the accessory will appeal to lovers of vivid erotic impressions.The product is packed in a black bag for privacy and your comfort.

Price - 2429 rubles

• sit firmly and freely on the wrist;
• high comfort;
• durability;
• material: genuine leather.

• only for women;
• high price.

masks

Putting a mask on your partner so that you don’t perceive everything that happens with your eyes closed is an interesting idea. The lover's feelings will intensify, and an unusual experiment builds confidence. However, you can buy an eye mask that does not interfere with seeing. But then it will be an element of seduction. In the assortment of sex shops you can pick up products of various types: velvet, leather, lace, satin. It is better for a woman to choose, as this is usually a female accessory.

Mask-helmet Dzhaga Dzhaga (961-01 BX DD)

A supplex head mask is an ideal accessory for those who want to remain a stranger with a mystery. Now you will be mysterious and unique!

The mask with holes for the eyes and mouth does not interfere with breathing, and everything is perfectly audible in it. The product is made of an elastic material that stretches perfectly in any direction, does not lose its pumping shape and does not restrict your movements at all. Great for both men and women. You can dominate, or you can obey. After putting on a mask on your head, erotic entertainment instantly turns into extreme sex with an admixture of fantasy.

Price - 594 rubles.

• sit softly and freely on the face;
• high comfort;
• women, men;
• inexpensive;
• material: nylon and spandex.

• fast wear.

Sitabella Wolf mask with spikes (3416-1)

It may seem like a paradox, but by pretending to be someone else, putting on this product, you become yourself, gaining absolute freedom from worldly conventions and human complexes. That is why the use of masks in role-playing love games has become quite relevant. All this allows you to feel yourself, your own desires, complete emancipation and a sense of inner freedom. The brutal Wolf mask becomes an indispensable accessory for connoisseurs of power games, BDSM photo shoots and theme parties. The attribute is made of thick genuine leather using nickel fittings. The size of the product is universal, thanks to the buckle-regulator and additional elastic band.

Price - 2889 rubles.

• smooth landing;
• high comfort;
• women and men;
• material: genuine leather and metal.

• expensive.

Gags

Depriving a person of his voice is a common practice in BDSM. That is what they are used for. Depending on which model of products you prefer, the lower partner will lose the opportunity to speak at all, or you will allow him to make some sounds. Remember, the use of such accessories requires the full trust of partners.

Sex toy "Gag in mouth"

The product will be an excellent choice for bold and liberated lovers. Can be used alone, but better in combination with other sex devices. Once placed in the mouth and fixed with a belt and buckle, it can be adjusted to fit. The gag is easily inserted and fixed in the mouth of the sexual partner. The body of the ball itself with holes in for air. The size of 4.5 cm allows you to comfortably hold it in your mouth. The gag is designed to diversify your sex life and completely new sensations in your relationship.

Price - 229 rubles.

• comfort;
• for women, for men;
• low price;
• waterproof.

• cheap materials
• wear resistance.

Collars

Used for pony-style play. Of course, the collar and other harness is put on by the lower in status. A girl in such erotic ammunition looks extremely sexy. Leather, transparent collars, with rings and spikes, with rivets, different colors of rhinestones, with leashes or chains - the choice is simply huge. Just understand what turns you on with your partner. As with other hard paraphernalia, the use of collars is only necessary with the consent of your partner.

Collar KISSEXPO with spikes and leash inlaid with sapphire

An excellent fetish accessory for both lovers! Stylish and thick collar, decorated with rhinestones in the idea of ​​sapphire and metal elements. Looks simply stunning!
A beautiful and stylish BDSM accessory with a ring decorated with blue sapphire rhinestones, adjustable in volume with a lock located at the back.

Price - 1350 rubles.

• comfort;
• for women, for men;
• style.

• material - metal and polyurethane;
• wear resistance.

Collar with chain Scandal Collar with Leash

The designer attribute of erotic accessories from the Scandal sensual VIP collection is sure to please fans of BDSM entertainment. The collar is completed with a metal chain leash with a special brush loop, which is stylishly trimmed with a decorated fabric with a designer pattern in shiny red threads. The leash is attached with a carabiner to the collar, handcuffs or leg braces as desired.

Price - 4081 rubles.

• beautiful and elegant;
• reliability;
• for women, for men;
• material - metal, fabric and genuine leather;
• style.

• high price.

Scenarios for games

There are several different play scenarios in BDSM:

• The first and most common here is the master and his slave. At the same time, it is not at all necessary that a man acts as a slave, as we are told by Western films, it is often the other way around. In this case, the slave can carry out the strict orders of the mistress during not only one sexual intercourse. Bed fun lovers can stretch for the whole day, or even longer.
• There are scenarios where the submissive side must always be prepared for sex, at the most unexpected moment, in any obscene place, at the first request of the other side.
• Another common scenario is the avoidance of orgasm. In this case, the victim is obliged to satisfy any desire of the dominant, but she herself has no right to pleasure. This is regulated by bringing to a peak and stopping any impact so that it does not come.

Important tips before you start

• The first is trust

In the practice of BDSM there is absolutely nothing with open violence. This is sexual fun, going according to clear rules. And if there is a reason not to trust a partner for some reason, for example, he has a tendency to real violence, do not give him full power over you. This is fraught with unpredictable consequences.

• Second, following the rules

The differences between this culture and criminal, socially aggressive actions are in the strict observance of the framework by all participants in the game. The essence of this is that any relationship, physical or moral influence on a partner must unequivocally obey rationality, voluntariness and the principles of security.

Options for the proposed impacts should be discussed in advance. This is where pleasure is important. Think about what you are ready for, for the sake of the desires and satisfaction of your partner.

Feel free to speak out about your fantasies and desires, discuss the devices involved in the game, clarify the use cases.

An oral agreement (sometimes a paper one) is required. This is your right and taboo. And there is no need to treat such things with suspicion and misunderstanding.

• Third, harm to health

It is clear that there will be marks from the whip or handcuffs on the body, but this will quickly pass in a few hours. There may not even be bruises. The health of partners should always be a priority.

• Fourth - do not forget about the code word

If you feel discomfort, there is a desire to leave the game, or you feel something is wrong, you should not endure it.

But in extreme love games, the words “I don’t want”, “enough”, “enough”, “no, etc. usually do not matter, but rather make the fun more exciting and emotional. After all, usually your ability to resist in the course of such plots is very limited.

Agree on "stop words" that signal the process to stop.

In the classics, the words "red" means stop the game, "yellow" - a decrease in intensity.

And yet - the stop word does not negate the obligation to monitor the condition of the lover. Health is the most important thing.

• Fifth - everyone has their own roles

Get used to the idea - one of you has no right to desire something. He should only satisfy the other. Someone enjoys complete obedience, the other prefers disobedience, which is once again punished.

• Sixth - do not overplay

Remember, the game is not real life, and after its outcome it should stop. Everything that happens in your bedroom stays there. Strictly make a distinction - where is entertainment, and where is life.

Safety with BDSM toys

In order to enjoy participation in extreme games without causing injury and lack of familiarity with the hospital ward, it is necessary to know and follow the important safety rules for such games. First of all, try to negotiate and plan with your partner everything that you are going to go through. If there is no desire to rest according to the scenario, discuss the likely stop words. If a gag is provided in the mouth, then there must be a stop gesture. In any case, always at a stoplight, the game must be stopped unconditionally and immediately.

Most importantly, everything that happens between the two must be absolutely voluntary and desired by both parties.

In addition, no need to try the use of too harsh toys or tools for beginners, without experience. With anal penetrations with special devices, one should not forget about the required amount of lubricant. And there should always be means to stop the blood, something disinfectant and bandages.

sanitary care

Separate word sanitation. Caring for products is important because many of them touch a naked, sweaty body. Hence, their disinfection is simply necessary. Products should be washed with warm water, preferably using baby soap. Store them in a dry place away from moisture. Before use, you need to check the working mode, whether there is a handcuff key and the validity of the batteries. If the toys are mains powered, check that the electrical wiring is working properly. When using masks or gags, be sure to ensure that air access to the subordinate's face is present in a normal amount. And then your slave may suffocate.

Results

Fans of extreme sexual games, sooner or later, still begin to use devices and mechanisms. In particular, this applies to those who want to try hard sex. Sometimes only handcuffs are enough for this, and a gag in the mouth of a subordinate.

It is important to voluntarily comply with all established rules. And do not forget to follow the safety rules and just do not turn on the fantasy unnecessarily. Then everything will be fine for both partners who agree to such extreme pleasure.

Why do people do it

No matter how many answers are given to this question, the most correct of them is because you like it. Some may explain adherence to BDSM with childhood trauma, others will determine the tendency to deviant behavior, and still others will say that it is a mental illness. But people prone to BDSM games for the most part do not give the impression of notorious, inadequate or violent individuals, and they are not. On the contrary, they are trying with all their might, in every way and by any means to deliver the top of pleasure to each other.